6 Reasons why Money is required in Marriage as it is important in our Daily life

Money is the key to a happy married life..... HOW?? 

Sometimes, people say that they can survive without money because life in the olden days was all about means of exchange by giving out your goods or properties to get what you want but neglecting the fact that a modern society today cannot function without money. Yes money might not be everything but money is something very important which helps to sort our basic needs and also helps us in achieving our life goals. Money on the other hand enable us to make a difference in our life and also in the life of other people. 

Money as a medium of exchange which enables people to do what they want in life is said to be important in our Daily life because it helps us deal with the tangible things around us like education, families, health issues, adventures, fun and sometimes charity. Money plays a huge role in our lives because it helps us to attain a standard and quality education. 

Aside education, with money, one could establish a good and healthy business, save lives, cater for the family and also help the less privileges. I have heard of some people saying that money can't buy happiness. Money might not be able to buy happiness but it gives us the chances to a better life and that of the lives of our family. 

Money gives us the power to have a full control over our lives. It gives us freedom and eliminate poverty around us. 

Finally, money is said to be a trap and only the wise can live on it while the rest fall inside it. 

Financial problems and financial stress have a great impact on marriages. One can survive under a petty job that earns them 500 naira per day but in Marriage, it takes lots of money to be able to manage a family especially when kids are involved. Marriage requires hard work from both sides to be able to survive so that the kids can have a good and a healthy lifestyle. Once you are married, your financial status changes automatically. 

Marriage responsibilities shouldn't fall on just one partners shoulder, the both parties who are on the verge of making their relationship go smoothly should held responsibilities together even though it's 70/30 and in order to achieve this, couples needs to work hard and make more money so that their responsibilities aim can be achieved. 

These responsibilities are: providing the children's need, giving them the best education, paying of the rent, payment of bills e. t. c.. By putting two heads together in these regard, a beautiful home is sure. 

In marriage, everyone needs to eat at least 3sq meal per day. You as a couple are both in the position of buying any kind of groceries in the house just to enable the kids live a comfortable life. Giving your kids anything they want to eat at the particular moment is the joy of every parent but what will happen if their is no money to provide all those. Money is highly required in this regard because it is one of the root to a happy home. No parent would want their children to shed tears for a moment in the name of hunger. 

Money and marriage work hand in hand just like two best friends struggling to survive. In marriage where the couples struggle hard together in making money for the family, they barely have time before one sight the others mistakes. Unnecessary arguments and fights usually comes up when one party is idle especially the wife. 

All kinds of complains will start coming in from here and it could from dere lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. When the is money in the joint account or rather their separate accounts and you are able to sort out your needs and wants anytime and any moment, there won't be room for fights or unnecessary arguments and the house will be as peaceful as real heaven on earth. 

Should I lie that money doesn't kill affection or attraction? No, because in marriage when your partner isn't looking enticing always, it will gets to a certain point that you will be disgusted because you both now live in the same house, sleep on the same bed and do all sorts together unlike during courtship that you only get to see yourself once in a while. 

Couple's love to compete in terms of fashion because they always wants to look fresh and new to each other, wear each others clothes, and most times use each others deodorants. 

When their is no money to maintain your body and make yourself looks good and attractive as desired by your partner, they loose interest day by day which could lead to distress but when their is money and you both are always shining, you will always want to have a taste of each other and never gets tired. 

The best way to financial freedom in marriage is when both partners work hard to ensure that the future is secured. Engaging in an individual jobs or building the family business is a great assurance that you both will grow a healthy home. 

In this regard, setting a joint account is one of the best thing to save life stories. When a joint account is set aside individuals account, it gives you less worries because no matter how much you spent from your own personal account, you know their is still something to rely on in a case of emergency. 

Couples who work hard and do not depend on each others salary have a great chance to a happy home more than those relent, resting the whole responsibilities on one party to sort. 

Furthermore, it is advisable for you as a couple who have the plan of living a good life and raising healthy kids to be financially independent and work hard towards achieving this aim.

 

Raising healthy and happy kids isn't a job you start today and end tomorrow. It requires lots of money, hard work, devotion, time and commitment to be successful in these aspect. Children of these days are at a higher demand because they are going out and can see their friends so they would want to have what their friends have too. 

Aside going out, they go to school everyday so whatever their friends at school have as play items, they would want to belong and as a mother or father, you wouldn't want your child to feel less in the midst of their friends.  

Your kids will be happy when you give them the best quality education, buy them toys, take them out during weekends, buy them different kinds of dresses even if they are not designers, gift them with shoes at anytime, buy them ice creams, spend time with them and they will be more happier when you create time to join them in their play especially during weekends and also guide them through their home works and reading of their books. 

More of hard work, understanding and commitments from the couples are the only ways to achieve all this aim. Indeed, money is the key to a happy married life..